kdpierre:
If anyone tries to tell me people like a good discussion, I'll collapse from laughter
..if participants want to nail down a solid definition of what is a "good discussion" that is accepted across-the-board, then we can proceed, otherwise it's an emotion-driven non-discussion masquerading AS a discussion.
But, yes, I agree, very few people like or even enjoy a "good" discussion. For instance, I made a negative broad sweeping statement by using the phrase "the alphabet crowd." Now a "good" discussion wouldn't have made equally broad sweeping assumptions and either quieried my negativity or sought definition to my negativity. Thereby you would find that my "hate" is for alphabetisms and illogic. I can't describe how much I hate alphabetisms (or acronyms). "WHY?" Because people that use easy conveniences, forget the meaning behind conveniences. Want proof? LGBT. The first two letters. Lesbian and Gay. Lesbian is a woman who loves her same sex. But according to modern culture, "gay" is simply a homosexual, so it refers to both male AND female homosexuals. If that's the case (and I think otherwise) then putting Lesbian before it is redundant, and thereby; illogical.
Nothing based on "politics" as faryakan seeks to twist my words into. I will admit, I only believe there are two sexes, unlike the alphabet gang, but not because I believe that men can't love men, etc but, because without having two sexes, then transexuals becomes a meaningless word. I don't, by and large, like to redefine the dictionary, simply because some portion of society disagrees with what each definition means. Again, illogic.
After that, I detest people who try to define what was. 100 years ago (or more), we THINK we knew what life was like "traditionally" but that doesn't mean we do. People like to think that "traditionally" men were in power, and subjectated women as they liked, but in actuality men were just as subjected as women. Want proof? I have none, but I will propose three literary works: The Legend of Rip Van Winkle, The Taming of the Shrew, and Great Expectations. Now, you might say, but those are all ficticious, and thereby note noteworthy. True, but why is it they resonate so much? How is it that these stories that display men as being weak, and subservient to the women in the stories, unless not all men were "traditionally" the mysogenistic brow beating lord and master of all women around them, as most people today like to think they were, how is it these stories that portray men as weak, became popular, that even women will read them and liken them in some fashion, in other words, it resonates with them; that "Oh, I know a woman (today) who is exactly like that!"?
That isn't to say that there weren't men that weren't a piece of work, back then. There have always been criminals in the past, but that doesn't mean all people in the past were criminals.
I don't try to redefine the past, per se. I just think the past wasn't that much different from the present.