Are Male Spankiees Less of a Man?

wooz1111
Ha! Pfft. My name ain't "God." I all too well know what I do and a good deal of what I don't know (which is more than most who DO claim they know everything. Usually those people with the fancy paper framed on their office wall). When there is something I don't know, and I care about it, then I try to make it something I do know. I

As to the rest, I think you're spoiling everyone's fun. It's the BDSM equivalent of Cavemen vs Astronaut: Who'd win in a fight. The point isn't answering the indefinable, it's about giving those dusty grey cells a little workout.

wooz1111
Gosh, Lonewulf, you seem to know everything.

Still, nobody has ever answered this question definitively and I dont really know why they even try.

Moot.
This is the beauty of a smalltalk thread. Thinking small, I definitely try not to be definitive in anything I write

I personally do not believe that male spankees are less of a man at all. However, some women I have met at spanking parties seem to think so. One woman I spanked at a spanking party told me to my face that she would lose respect for me as a man if she ever saw me receiving a spanking from a woman. She said that if she saw me being spanked by a woman, she would never allow me to spank her ever again. Other women that I have met at spanking parties held similar views. Since I am a switch, such attitudes make it extremely difficult for me to explore both sides of my spanking interest. My favorite type of scene is one in which I can play both roles - spanker and spankee - with the other person, where we take turns spanking and being spanked. I have met very few women who have any interest in that type of scene, even if they are switches themselves.

No not at all. My Fiancé is Top to me but he does switch. He is submissive to someone else and we have friends that switch too. I rarely cane him but it will never be at the level he needs I do not like hurting anyone. So our sessions are funishments. My health does not allow me to play often I have numerous health issues But I would never stop him having fun. My love is 6'5(6) a gentle giant and a gentleman with hands like paddles. Me? 5'1" and shrinking. Less of a man? Never ever!

That's a lot like it was with me and 'Mrs. Often'.
Back to the question: "Are male spankees less of a man?" Not at all, and she would have laughed at that idea.

A very quick hello to here and to answer the original question with a firm No! Cheers Good Life Mickey.

Welcome, GoodLifeMickey. No it is.

I’ve picked up a bit of blowback regarding my statement re: real men and quiche. I stand behind the statement and cite as my unimpeachable source the NYT bestselling textbook “Real Men Don’t Eat Quiche: The Guidebook to All That Is Truly Masculine”, by Bruce Fierstein, copyright 1982. And since said authoritative tome doesnt mention anything about real men not getting spanked, I wouldn’t lose a lot of sleep over it...

Perhaps they don't eat quiche but maybe egg and bacon pie is acceptable -

It’s all in the phrasing....