DLandhill:
galt54:
And then there is another variation on the theme. The female gets spanked because she does not pleasure her male partner when she is supposed to!
Well, actually the idea of sex as a duty is repugnant also. But a female should give her male pleasure some of the time!
Again, I could see this as part of the agreed framework of a D?S or DD relationship. Or in a work of historical fiction. But not in a contemporary general story.
Perhaps so, if the terms "D/s" and "DD" are interpreted broadly enough in a modern sense.
In many strict fundamentalist Christian families, ones in which anything sexually kinky would be considered 'satanic,' the husband effectively dominates his wife, in some cases including via spanking her for 'offenses,' which could include failure to erotically please him.
Although regarding galt54's point, in mainstream society nowadays, aren't males expected to give their female partners sexual satisfaction too?
Let's not express it as a 'one-way street'...

--C.K.