Yes there are a lot of really bad videos out there, and I agree with many of the reasons given here as to why they are bad, but for me, anatomical explicitness is not one of them. Far from viewing female "bits" as "gynecological," I see them as cute, beautiful, sexy, fascinating, etc. Likewise female anal "stars." Of course I know that everyone has an anus, but curiously it is only the female ones that I like seeing- but I do. This spanking kink seems to be a cluster of related kinks, and not just one. Most people think "spanking" and "S&M" are the same thing, but for me, nothing is a quicker turn-off than black leather, rubber, dungeons and so on. I detest any sort of verbal abuse. For me it is about sex though, and specifically the erotic charge from imaging myself in situations that involve a lot of premeditated ceremony and embarrassing exposure. That is why I guess, that explicit exposure does not bother me (to say the least). Just watching a bottom being smacked again and again bores me, and if it is through clothing- even as brief as a bikini- it bores me more. To each his or her own though, and I seem to be in the minority here. Also, I think that stills, like stories, allow the consumer to construct more of their own story, which allows a better fit to their own kink. |