Who knows you're a spanko?

Who in your circle of family & friends knows you're a spanko?
In my case, Mrs Dund, obviously but I've a funny feeling my married step-daughter suspects something.

In my case of people I see face to face as it were (and not you lot) there's Mrs Ollie and perhaps Miss Ollie the Writer's Daughter, probably only because we speak about writing a lot.

I have shown a couple of my stories to two friends who write as well, one of whom found it amusing and one thought about it a bit then decided it wasn't important to our friendship (and it isn't).

My wife knows, my friend who lives near me, only because she has spanked me, my Top, obviously. I think they are the only ones

My exes, a few close friends, and my older sister. I don't bother keeping it a secret, but its not something that's likely to come up in everyday conversation either.

I finally told my wife several months ago that I write for the library. So, I take it she has a good idea. A few friends know also from years back. I agree with Ollie, it's not important in a friendship.

Pat

My spanko daughter and my vanilla wife.

A spanko daughter? Now that's interesting. If i may ask, exactly how did your daughter become a spanko? Was it because she knew you were a spanko and she became interested or is it just genetic?

This could be a whole new topic; how many members have children who are spankos and how did they become spankos? Were the spanko children spanked or not? I don't remember that particular topic ever being discussed here.

Good question tiptopper.
Two questions for spankzz. How old is your daughter, and is she a spanker or a spankee?

Hmmm.... that is an interesting question. Of course my ex knew not that it mattered much. My best friend found out when she and her husband came to stay at our house one time while we were away. Just like the story that was written, I had stupidly left a video and a couple of stories laying about that they enjoy watching and reading that night. LOL.... through all that though I found out she had an obsession with it too and we'd known each other for years. I'm not too sure some others in my family haven't discovered it over the years but no one has ever said anything to me about it. And I'd bet my bottom dollar my daughter is one most likely she has secretly read some of my writings.

Katie B

I am so "out" that I'd need a lot of time and even some good memory jogs to list every person who became aware of my quirky, not-so-secret secret over the years.

In general most of my family and most of my friends and several very select acquaintances know. To top it all off, my Honey is very happy to drop hints and look for reactions in people. Then if the coast seems clear and welcoming, she reveals more. ( It is not surprising that I get a good bit of good-natured teasing from several circles.)