Who knows you're a spanko?

My hubby and my 2 kids know that I am a spanko and that I write for the lsf. My best friend who is vanilla also knows because it hapened to come up in convo once.

A couple of times I got caught out with the LSF on my computer when guests popped in unexpectedly. On one occasion I had the page minimised and the visitor wanted to show hubby something on the computer and my minimised page became maximised revealing the LSF homepage in all its full glory with caned buttocks glaringly obvious! Another time a visitor wanted to show hubby something in one of his emails and my computer was the nearest. I gave hubby a 'beseeching look' which went straight over his head and yes my Google Chrome was opened up and right across the top of the page screamed my computer history and favourite sites! And I bet you can guess what that revealed... Yep the Spanking Library! Both visitors were friends of hubby and both shot me very strange looks! Oh well! Their fault for looking I guess hehe!

Once my daughter helped herself to my USB memory stick thinking it was empty so she could lend it to her bf so he could transfer some stuff for her. Unbeknown to daughter the memory stick had 3 of my stories saved to it: Mooning in Butt Hole Road; Kites, Knickers and Canes and also, Red Bottoms and the Le Rouge Diamond Let's hope he didn't open any of them!!!

My cousin (who writes suspense fiction), his daughter and my daughter (both teens) have read some of my stories and enjoyed them... but I doubt they are spankos haha. But who knows!

Two exes, that's it.

My husband knows. A friend I confessed to, after too many beers. (I think I may be drinking too much.) Everyone here. Does that count as "out" ?

Out and proud I'd say!

Only my wife, and a couple of ex girlfriends. None of my friends has shown the least sign of being kinky in any way, or I might have tried to out myself to one of them.

Only my wife and I don't think she knows the full extent of my interest (obsession?), or that I write stories.

My entire e-mail address book including friends, work mates, my mother and my, at the time, 10yo half-sister as I naively used my main e-mail addy on a spanking forum - nothing to do with here or BL - and when I somehow got a virus, the owner of the spanking forum took it upon himself to send an accusatory email to my entire address book making it clear that I was a member of said site and suggesting I was up to something dodgy!!!

Other than that, just my husband oh and the cats!

I was going to say no one, but I have to change that. My sister-in-law Ruth is always asking for the web address here, but I don't know if she ever found her way. She knows I write, too, and seems especially interested. My husband thinks I'm a sicko, not a spanko. He has no idea what that means, and no interest in anything I write except to censure it, so I make sure he doesn't see any of it.

... so not many at all then! And wow Pink that must have been so embarrassing! How did you explain your way out of that one?

It was rather, I was furious at the time but a few years on I know it said more about him than me LOL

As for explaining it... I didn't bother trying