incisron:
I don't think I'm a fan of school punishments in stories, or of the childish, immature woman who gets a huge spanking for making a mistake like forgetting her raincoat.
I agree with this. I don't personally care much for stories with supposedly adult spankee who has the maturity of a bratty five year old, or who is so flighty as to be incapable of any responsibility.
Here's a theme I do like, which actually less common than you might think: stories about discipline, where the spankee (reluctantly) accepts the necessity for their punishment. Not because they are eager for it, nor because it is therapeutic, nor because they feel excessive guilt (though they may feel remorse). Rather, because she believes it's the right thing to do. The spankee fully supports the disciplinary regime, and so with resignation gracefully submits to her own punishment when it becomes necessary. (An example is Susan Thomas's "When in Rome".)