Back to the OP.
Receiving:
Very much depends on the mood. Sometimes I like just the cane, sometimes just leather paddles & straps.
I started off my toy-bag with many synthetic "imitation" implements, even investing in a selection of rubber-covered "Spanksticks" which are ideal for dungeon use as they are easily cleanable, but actually rather boring...Perhaps more suitable for less-hardened or lower threshold spankees? I am now going "organic" and like all my implements to be either wood or leather. Exception is my Delrin, for which I have not found a wooden replacement. It is one on it's own and only used on rare occasions.
I did see someone (Wheatwine) asking about Lexan paddles? They bloody hurt and bruise! Also the tawse, which someone had earlier described as thuddy, but not bruising? Really? I have a ladies tawse which stings and because of it's length can be swung very fast, but I have had a much heavier male tawse used on me and I can tell you that it was the only thing that day that made me say ouch and did indeed leave medals for a week!
Giving:
Always warm up with an otk hand-spanking. If there is to be sex involved it gives me chance to assess the state of the spankee

I like to use my nice thick Italian leather belt and the cane, not usuallly in the same session. Particularly over nice tight jeans... I do have a denim fetish, not that anyone would ever guess, eh?
If I had all day, I'd use my suede flogger on the spankees back, front and bottom until all were sufficiently warmed up before continuing.