Do the ladies like F/M ?

F/f is most definitely my preferred genre, as simply put that is what i can relate to.

However a story i read in the recent F/m story challenge called The Amazonian by BashfulBob, i found to be very much to my liking.

I for one am strong believer that if i read a story then i should comment upon it, so read primarily F/f stories, as feel can comment easily, that comment is no excellent critique, but is generally positive because of the genre.

When reading outside my preferred genre i feel i am entering a lucky dip, i might draw out a story and find it excellent, which i did in the above mentioned challenge, but likewise i often do not, and then struggle to comment as even the genre is not my thing.

I know that i will miss some truly marvellous pieces of writing, by my reluctance to read outside my preferred genre, but i guess that is the same for anyone who has favoured genres, authors etc, in all libraries not just LSF.

Maybe it is a intellect thing, if i looked at all the stories with a better knowledge of writing, authorship etc, i might look beyond genre, and then be able to focus upon the penmanship, or should that in our PC society be, pen personship?

I have been a spanko for a very, very long time. I met my current wife 15 years ago and when she became my fiancee I told her about my spanking fetish. First she was pretty skeptic about it but then she adapted it and to make a long story short, now she really loves it. She spanks 9 other naughty boyz than me and she gets erotic feelings when doing it. Therefore, each and every spanking that she is executing are, now days, erotic role plays. I think that there are many F/M ladies out there but they just need to be lured out from the closet!

Personally speaking, I raised the subject with my wife a few months into our marriage seventeen years ago. Not only did she not like the idea of spanking me, she was absolutely aghast and horrified. So much so, that the subject has never raised its ugly (in her opinion) head again.

The strange thing is, she was always landing single, playful slaps on my backside and it was this that encouraged me to try and take things a bit further.

I'll never forget the look on her face, nor my feelings of, not only being unusual and twistedly different, but also of being less than a man and someone who should be completely ashamed.

Therefore, like many others, I live a double life and my kink and marriage will never combine.

We are both well into our 50's, so it may be a generation thing.

Thanks to the internet and fantastic sites like this I slowly began to realise that I wasn't alone and that there were quite a few others like me.

It certainly appears to be far less frowned upon now than it used to be, and contemporary women are more open to the idea of smacking their male counterparts nether regions.

I am a man - and have been fortunate enough over quite a few years to have found a number of ladies (always adult, and around one dozen of them in all) who were prepared to indulge in some spanking (as part of a physical relationship). I have never yet spanked a woman who did not 'get her own back', and have always been happy to offer my partner the opportunity to spank me as well as to bare her own bottom.

I think it fair to say that this has always been as a follow up to being spanked herself, and that none of the girls concerned was the first to spank me, or suggested any such activity themselves. It would be stimulating - in all senses - to be approached with a spanking proposition; which for me would have to come from a female. (I have no interest in encounters of any kind with other men.)

But looking back, I think that all the ladies I have been lucky enough to spank preferred to be the receiver, and might well have left it at that if I had not asked them specifically to spank me too. Once asked, many of them entered into the spirit of it with a will, but I can think of some (around half of them) who would have been happy not to indulge if I had not proposed it. Two in particular clearly found being spanked very much of a sexual turn-on, and were perhaps the most enthusiastic when given the chance to retaliate.

It is interesting that almost all the women I have slept with were willing to be spanked; although I have had a couple of partners who did not want to play; I have never forced any woman into accepting a spanking when she did not co-operate willingly. We all enjoy stories in which the victim has to accept a spanking to avoid some other punishment, but in reality I suspect that many - maybe all - of us would never do such a thing.

I have never had any desire to spank anyone and indeed it is completely contrary to my nature.
Once when a very dominant man, who I was playing with at the time, said that on one occasion he had come over all 'subbie' and been spanked, I was momentarily horrified and my reaction was, "Dear God, never ask me to do that." I really wouldn't want to and wouldn't want to be asked to as 'a refusal often offends'.
I suppose it depends on the nature of the woman involved and I certainly don't have a problem with people who switch - it's just not for me.

Eric's story is surprisingly like my own. Many years ago, I found myself in a relationship with a woman raising three kids on her own. When I discovered that she spanked one of them for something they'd done, I suggested that she feel free discipline me the same way if the need ever arose.

For the most part, she's not really "into" spanking me, but on the rare occasions when she's given me a punishment spanking, it's helped us get through rough patches that might have been more difficult for many non-spanking couples to navigate. In addition to these infrequent punishment spankings, she's usually willing to indulge my need for less severe ones, so all-in-all, I'd say I'm pretty lucky.

My experience is probably quite atypical, however, because my wife comes from a culture where spanking is more common than it is in present-day America. Based upon stories that I've heard from her and her acquaintances, the spanking of older teens and even young adults in her home country is still a fairly common occurrence.

An interesting question. I'm primarily into both F/m and F/f myself. I did manage to convince my then fiancée to try it, and surprisingly, she discovered she really enjoyed spanking me.

I'm afraid that in real life only Ff or FF do it for me as this is how I first was introduced to spanking, the hairbrush and later the cane - at a tender age. My mum spanked me often but it was my sister - 15 yrs my senior who administered the most regular and severe punishments right up until I went away to university. I can only ever think of submitting in such a way to another woman. Reading of Fm and FM can be mildly arousing but it is only FF and Ff that I fully enjoy. I have switched roles over the years, and still do, but I am wholly submissive to my current partner Ann - a few years my senior - in what is a very satisfying, loving and rewarding relationship. Although punishments are painful, they are also intensely sexually rewarding, sometimes during and sometimes after the act.

As a F/M spanker, I can say that I enjoy both reading and spanking. Most of the guys I've spanked were way too heavy to do an un-assisted OTK, so over the lap on a bed helps with balance. I know it is easier to just write bending the guy over something. But guys seem to dislike it. Seems like they prefer the closeness of skin on skin. Correct me if I am wrong, guys.

Meggy

You are not wrong.