I have to agree that more ladies like the guys to do the spanking rather then vice versa. However at times I do wonder if the lady ever asked the guy doing the spanking if he would like to reverse things sometimes, how many guys would answer yes?
In general women prefer to think of their guy of strictly masculine and submitting to a spanking does not fit that image. A man taking charge and spanking his lady fits the image and thereby such is generally more accepted by women in general today.
So in thinking about this post, I have to write my own opinions. First, many men who may never admit it, would love their lady to spank them, but because of that image men feel vital to maintain, they will never ask or admit their desire. Second, in considering the same image, many women will never spank their man because if it got out the image of her having a masculine husband would be questioned and that could affect the relationship.
Many women would admit that men at times act like overgrown children. The saying goes 'men never outgrow their toys, the toys just get bigger, more expensive and more dangerous'. The never out growing their toys is a sign men still need their mothers around to instill common sense into them, but since mom and the wife feel it is not their place, things can go from bad to worse.
So my conclusion to this matter is this. As stats on this site will prove, the M/F story is preferred by most readers on this site. After that I would suggest F/F and F/M come in close together in second place. I think these stats also reflect real life and the three options would rank the same.
If I accept that image and perception are going to affect every person, then F/M will never be accepted by many people as it does not fit what is perceived by many as the norm. This is really too bad, because many women and guys are scared to mention it even if it has occurred to them to try it, and thus may be missing out on something they may find can be a great as M/F.
I know there as been a few stories here that have a perceived tough man going home and getting spanked by his wife. It can and does happen. It we (and I mean me too) would only quit worrying about what is the norm and get back to simply enjoying what we desire, the world and life would be a much better place.
My final statement here is that I hope no one ever stops actually practicing or even writing F/M just because of what others think. I hope many women read my stories and perhaps think about involving their men on occasion, but I recognize that may rarely happen. |