Active spanking people ?

angelmischief, I suspect you will be the envy of many after your post. It prompted me to read some of your stories, which I really enjoyed, thank you.

I have read with great interest the post and have thought if others are willing to share perhaps I should too. Spankings given to my husband are quite real and I honestly believe he does his best to avoid them.

I do believe that his ability to be a switch, never with me allows him to explore a more exciting aspect of being into spanking. He is told from the females he helps, never sexual, how much his discipline helps them. However, I can assure he dislikes the overwhelming pain he receives for his misdeed. Unlike his time serving as the spanker, we feel that marital time after the discipline even after the hardest tear filled correction enhance our lives together.

SouthernLady, it seems we have some common ground here. I have quite a few stories based on real life Domestic discipline arrangements between dominant wives and the husbands who strive to genuinely obey them. It's how Rosa and I live and while not all of my stories reflect this situation, many are based on our actual experiences and discoveries about ourselves while living this way. Give them a try! Given what you wrote, may I suggest: "His and Hers" to start? Best of luck to you and your lucky husband. (I personally have not switched in a long time, though I have the ability and did so much more frequently prior to meeting Rosa.)

Of course I would LOVE to spank a naughty woman 24 hours a day. Since this is an impossibility I have arranged for this holiday season to invite a mature woman over in having a 'spanking good time'. Yes, in my bedroom, she will be bent over the bed, where I will lift her dress up waist high, take down her knickers, to bare her voluptuous naked rear end, and cane her. Yes, she will be wearing garter-belt and stockings, which accent her derriere. Yes, I promised her I would give her 'six or more strokes with my cane, across her bare bottom. And wish her Seasons Greetings. with a visit to her inviting sexual erotic vagina, at the conclusion of her corporal punishment.

Elorac
I'm honored that you read and commented! Thank you!

It is great that so many have raed and joined in this post that I started. As a male switch in Buckinghamshire, Uk, I have found it difficult to meet women for spanking. Only professionals seem interested. I would like to be in a disciplined relationship with my wife but as i have said before, she is vanilla. hence, I usually find it easier to meet up with guys to satisfy my spanking needs. Sometimes a s a switch and others as just a bottom. I get the impression that there are more ladies in the US that will spank their men folk than in the UK, maybe wrong but that seems so from this thread. Perhaps I need to move to the US !
What does anyone else think ?

Petespankboy: What I have discovered is that our society has loosened up for a somewhat adventurous woman to feel free enough to try just about anything. With all of the TV shows, books, movies, jokes and greeting cards with spanking references now, that particular activity is seeming tame in comparison to other things out there. Still, you need a few basic ingredients and one simple approach for things to work: the woman must be open-minded and a bit adventurous, she needs to have a dominant side to her personality, and your approach needs to be encouraging. Basically if you are going to tempt her with the idea of being in charge, you can't tell her what to do, how to do it, and what she's doing wrong. Just let her take the lead and enjoy the power. That power rush is the thing that hooks otherwise vanilla ladies into being darned firm and determined spankers (along with the improved attitude and behavior of their partners).

What will not work is trying to force a square peg into a round hole. If there is no interest, if there is revulsion, if the woman is the one who seeks to be submissive....... move on. My experience has been very positive, but the one thing that the women I have been involved with have always said was along the lines of, "wow, most other guys say they want me to be in charge but they end up showing they just want what they want and how they want it, but you really let me be in charge and you really strive to make me happy and obey me."

Good luck!

I will tell you all now that I class myself the luckiest man alive because of the wife I have and our spanking relationship.
Before I even met my wife, as a child, through my teens and into my early 20's, I used to have great delight spanking girls and then women, upto and including my wife in playful situations.
I was in my 40's when one day when the kids were out and my wife and I had some free time together, I asked her to spank me for a change in foreplay. she refused, absolutely no way she said. I tried talking her around but to no avail.
For the next 5 years I tried talking her into trying it, and lo and behold she finally consented and I got my first sexy spanking from her, she was shy about it and unsure but eventually she delivered a decent warm spanking. After that we took turns in spanking each other for fun and gradually she got more and more happy with it and that year I turned 50 and she gave me a birthday spanking with no worries and as a suprise to me, turning my bottom red all over istead of the pink she usually stopped at.
Then came another phase, whilst I was spanking her now and then and she me, I wanted a good sound spanking with her hairbrush. Again she said no and kept saying no for 2 years, finally she said yes and now the kids had grown up and moved away she made a point one day of going online to the DWC website that I had told her to look at to give her an insight to the kind of spanking I wanted.
Well she was amazed that so many couples were into spanking in their relationships and it opened her eyes. Two days later she caught me as I was coming out of the shower and with a wicked little grin told me not to bother getting dressed as she was going to give me the spanking that I THOUGHT I wanted.
She called me over to her as she sat on the bed and told me to get over her lap. I did as she told me and she started spanking me with her hand but this time it seemed she was more determined. After about 70 good spanks she laughingly told me that my bottom was a very nice shade of red and it was time for my REAL spanking to begin. Moving me over one knee she locked her leg over the back of my two, then took my hand that was farest away from her, she pulled it up my back.
Patting my bottom she said to me, "Now you are ready for a very long hard hairbrushing darling and I'm going to deliver it just like some of those wives on that site you told me about do, you will be very very sore and bruised and sobbing uncontrolably by the time I've finnished, but remember I'm only doing it to you because you say you WANTED TO TRY IT. So be it on your own head darling."
Well I can tell you all she must have given me about 500 spanks with that brush and I was begging her to stop about the 200 mark, she just laughed and said "no chance" a proper hairbrushing I kept asking for and that's what I was getting. She carried on with that brush for at least another 200, when I finally collapsed in a sobbing mess over her knee, she laughed once more and carried on for about another 50-100, I don't really know how many I was past caring. After she deliver the final spank she had to help me up and lay me face down on the bed then she got some soothing ointment and gently applied it to my bottom and asked me quietly if the spanking had lived up to my expectations, through my tears and sobs I told her it was a lot more than I bargained for but I thanked her anyway.
She said she had to force herself to spank me as long and as hard as she did because nerves had crept in and even the laughing she'd done was false, but she had to carry on in case I thought she would let me down.
So that's my story, and over the years since, she has become an expert with hand and definately hairbrush spanking and I've had hundreds of them from her and I still get and enjoy spanking her bottom with hand only for fun which she enjoys. She has never spanked me that long and hard since, but she can and does give me long and hard ones when I want them, and every so often she will give me a little lopsided smile and say "Do you need a long crying session over my knee, you naughty man."
And then with a wink she will burst out laughing.

I once had a girlfriend who loved both top and bottom. What a time. Wonderful. She is long gone. She use to tell me how she was spanked as a child; up to the age of 13. I did put it to print. I lost the stories.

Wow Sebastian, I wished I had had a girl friend like that. You may have lost the stories but you have the memories and I'll bet you could work off of those. I for one would certainly be interested in reading of some if not all of her childhood spanking experiences or at least the ones you may remember more clearly.