Do you regret having a spanking fetish ever ?

This is exactly what I was going to say!

After reading more comments from everyone, how can you have regret when you have sites such as LSF? There so many other like minded people and we come from all walks of life. I say embrace your inner spanking and be happy for who you are. This site makes feel happy to be me!

Well said Ohiomom. And in that same spirit I decided to 'out' myself at work yesterday! Lol. Most of my close personal friends already know i am a spanko but it was a big step to reveal it in the salon (I'm a hairdresser). Of the five women I work with, four were very supportive and admitted the scene turns them on too (in varying degrees).....and one killed herself laughing and will no doubt ridicule me about it forever!!

You can't win 'em all. Lol.

Do a i regret it? Nope. I'm big enough to take any of the teasing and now when they ask me about my writing etc, I can be honest

Likewise! My closest friends and family know about it and love me for who I am, which makes them genuine. I don't see the kink as being something to regret at all. Everyone has there unique personality traits which make them special, and the spanko kink just adds another exciting dimension and should be nothing to be ashamed of IMHO.

Same here Janine and i totally agree with you on the aspect of if it had been discovered earlier.... I suspect you are in a more fortunate position that me in having your husband continue to accommodate your kink but I still do not regret who I am in any way. And as others have said beforehand, this wonderful site enables similar-minded individuals to come together to embrace and support each other.

I certainly used to regret it, spent years trying to kid myself that it wasn't an important part of my make up.
In the pre-internet times and even afterwards, I browsed the erotica sections of bookshops to find the all important spankoerotica. Of course my Dear Vanilla doesn't understand, and that complicates matters as well.

Am I happier in my too-pale skin now? Not sure. It certainly would have been easier to be vanilla

Complicates matters it does, as opb says. I have to be punished or at the very least fantasize that I am being punished in order to "achieve" sexual fulfillment. One issue for vanillas, I think, is that this kink is so counter-intuitive, viz., achieving pleasure through pain or humiliation. How can you possibly get off on that? And how do you expect me to respect you when you want me to do a, b, and c to you? Yes, I've been told that. I am what I am and nothing is going to change that. Yet if I could change it, I would.

Great question.

The first girl I spanked asked me to do it. In retrospect she bestowed me with a beautiful gift.
I cherish my sexuality, the invention it inspires, all the fun it fuels, I will never consider it an inconvenience. It is as much a part of me now as the vocabulary I use, or the accent I speak.
I consider myself very, very lucky indeed.

You know this site is great to meet all these people like ourselves,but relationship wise I needed you ladies when I was 18. Honestly I can only imagine how great sex would be with a girl who gets all this.

So many people on this site seem to be single or married to a vanilla.....Baboon, you are not alone!!

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