Spanking attire

On spanking attire, we seem to have focussed on what the spankee is wearing, or rather not wearing. What about the spanker? How would people like to see their spanker dressed?

Personally I like Mrs dund93 to be wearing a smart skirt just above the knee, which rides up when she sits down, but in keeping with her age.
That way she catches me looking up her skirt, which adds to my excitement prior to my spanking.

The type of woman that I would like to spank, is mature, dressed in an elegant evening gown, who underneath wears lingerie consisting of bra, garter-belt and stockings, and old-fashioned bloomer's, called 'directoire knickers'. All these garments are either raised, lowered, or taken off, so that her bottom is bared, for a good caning.

That depends on the type of spanking. If it's for discipline then she should be dressed in slacks or long skirt. Her hair should be up in a bun or pony-tail. If it's erotic then she would wear shorts or short skirt something that will allow skin to skin contact when I'm across her knee. Usually those spanking don't last very long before we move on to other things

For the unfortunate one getting spanked, simple I like to see her either nude from the waist down of fully unclothed. For the spanker, a bit more complicated. It totally depends upon the scenario being acted out. If say father daughter or uncle niece then the spanker (and I'm going male here) would be dressed in a normal manner. Pants, shirt, shoes. If in a school type setting (well then I guess the girl would not be nude) he would perhaps be dressed in a nice shirt and possibly a tie with dress slacks (if he is say the principal). If it's an institutional type scenario then the spanker would be dressed in some kind of uniform or again nice shirt with tie as people in these positions actually dress.

We do F/M. She prefers that I wear black: jeans, t-shirt, black belt. I wear the black t-shirt throughout my punishment. No underwear. When my pants come down, she is ready to spank. She removes my belt and threatens me with it. It may or may not become an instrument of choice. That is up to her.

I like her in feminine attire: dark knee length skirt which rides up when she takes me over her lap. Her top is typically conservative, revealing very little. On a rare occasion it is that bright red silky thing, that shows how well-endowed she is; it is graced with the thinnest shoulder straps. Typically pearl necklace and pearl earrings, a touch of elegance consistent with good breeding, good manners, and high expectations for my comportment.

I drape myself over her lap; she captures my rod between her thighs; I become rigid and she holds on tightly. Her feet elevated with some strappy high heeled sandals. Enthralled by her beauty, I will do anything she asks. I commit myself to giving her the love and respect she so richly deserves.

I love a woman to wear garter-belt and stockings, before I pull down her panties, knickers or bloomers.

Light khaki blouse knee high socks darker khaki shot shorts penny loafers

I have learned to love when a very confident spanker will not even begin to entertain notions of costuming in any particular attire but rather call me for a spanking in whatever she might be wearing. To be spanked by an annoyed partner dressed in jeans and casual top sends me a message that she is not presenting herself for my gratification but her desire to correct.

variety is the spice of life.