Ideal spankee

What about someone who deserves it. Someone who is smaller and submissive, but questions things too. Only to come to the realization, there is no way out of it.

It's extremely important that she deserves it--well, according to some system of rules anyway. I agree that the questioning is important too. That inner struggle is very erotic, as is the coming to terms with the fact that there's no choice, like a princess going to execution. So while I think it's good when she has no idea she needs it until the comeuppance is upon her, it's also nice when she has some inkling that maybe--just maybe--she might have done something to have earned this?

I thought I'd posted this a minute ago, but maybe not, apologies if I'm repeating myself.
I find a f/F pre-spanking scolding and humiliation a big turn-on.
The younger spanker saying something along the lines of "Aren't you embarrassed being across my knee at your age, having your bare bottom spanked by a much younger woman"
The scolding would carry-on during the spanking, then corner time for reflection. Nose to the wall, hands on head, skirt raised,and panties around her knees, with her mature rosy red bottom on show to all and sundry.

From what I can see the majority of you seem to think the spankee will be female, well for all the ladies out there who enjoy spanking a willing male bottom (or unwilling)

The bottom should be deserving, or not! Probably over the hill age wise, or not! Overweight, certainly! Eager to please, badly behaved and deserving of a very hot bottom and...Oh yes! Be me!!!! Ladies form an orderly (or unorderly) queue!

I have always enjoyed spankees who are at least a bit conflicted. While a totally willing victim who pleads for more and more can feed my dominant side until it's gorged, there is something about the lady who wants it in some way, desires it, but is a bit reluctant as well. I have always been thrilled by a victim who will obediently remain in place even while she struggles to do so.

As for appearance, I can handle and enjoy most varieties of the female form, but a rounded bottom does have an undeniable charm that a flat chicken-butt just can't evoke.

My favorite scenario in real life activity is probably the confessed pent-up guilt over something that is haunting the spankee and that they want to be punished for....desiring both the pain and the absolution it brings.

Very eloquently put kdpierre.