opb:
When reading i very much don't like the full-of-self-righteousness top character, and yearn for them to get some comeuppance, or at least lighten up a bit but most often I find that the authors who create such characters like them and so no comeuppances will be had.
Of course, the spanking gender orientation is primarily F/M in my stories, as opposed to the generally predominant M/F, but I have written three stories in which my main protagonist, a male who almost always ends up with his buttcheeks blazing, gets to corporally chastise a recurring female character (a different one in each story) who is usually the one dishing out the discipline to him. (Admittedly though, in each case it's stated or at least strongly implied that 'the tables will turn back' immediately afterward, plus only one of them involves true punishment for misconduct.)
These rare (for me) M/F accounts were written pretty much in response to readers' comments that those particular feminine spankers needed to feel some stinging heat on their own derrieres for a change, thus I obliged those commenters, albeit only in a momentary manner. (There's one other recurring character in whose case I 'draw a line in the sand,' she'll never sport a glowing bottom although she once did come close to it.)
Perhaps it's different within a M/F dynamic, but I do try to portray my feminine "spankmistresses" as characters who frequently display their 'softer sides' of caring for their chastisement recipients despite their strictness in disciplining them, or teasing them affectionately while administering playful-yet-sound spankings.
If a reader desires to see a *toppish* type of character getting his/her own behind blistered for a change, it couldn't hurt to suggest that to the author in your story comments...

--C.K.