Burgundy:
Do you ever get comments that surprise you because they are the opposite of what you intended? Like if you wrote a character that you thought was obviously abusive, but then some comments are like, "yeah! that kid totally deserved that" or something.
I have a recurring character who was the childhood friend, then young-adult girlfriend, now platonic close friend of my main protagonist, I've always thought of her as normally a sweet, affectionate female who (of course in my case) also can deliver a sound spanking for fun/play and a severe one for deserved discipline.
One reader who's somewhat familiar with the woman (in my stories) described her as being "bossy," that was while commenting about her not yet being so as a preteen in a brief 'first kiss' story I wrote. While she obviously has given instructions (sternly on occasions involving true punishment) which she has expected to be followed by the recipients of her corporal chastisement, I haven't ever considered the character to be a "bossy" person *per se.*
However, readers may not always perceive particular characters in the way that their creators (the authors) envision them. Occasionally I've even written a story in an attempt to portray a specific character in the manner within which I desire him/her to be viewed by others.
Based on story comments, readers may not necessarily agree with other readers about certain characters either. I'll read a comment describing a particular male story character as "appealingly masterful," whereupon I'll mutter to myself, "He strikes me as an arrogant, chauvinistic jackass..."

--C.K.