Robert56:
Do you have any idea how devastating this is going to be to a 13 year old girl getting it with her fathers solid wooden Jokari paddle on her bare buttocks with her younger brother right there closely watching every blistering swat and how her buttocks react to the impact of the paddle? Not to mention her very loud reaction as well.
Yep. That's sort of the point of witnessed spankings, the additional humiliation, that is. It's no less devastating that her witnessing his punishment (from his point of view certainly), although he might be a little
less "devastated", given his age at the time. A teen-aged girl
might be a bit more mortified than a pre-pubescent boy, for that very reason. Also, considering herself "too old" to spank and being disabused of that belief might be extra embarrassing for her...