Loss of “Male Pride” during Spankings

I honestly don't think there was any one answer to your questions. Different people react differently and teenagers and adult would probably react differently too. I can recall friends showing there injured hands with pride after a caning while I also remember not wanting to admit to a (female) cousin that I had just been slapped in school when I met her at lunch time. And the difference applied across the gender divide, girls who would complain about the pain and others who would try , like myself, to hide it. It would also depend on the relationship. Close friends might share more and of course and a close friend, male or female, would be more sympathetic than just the average acquaintance. In a school setting, sharing with class mates was almost forced on you when the punishment was in public in the classroom and like wise, in the home sharing with siblings.

But after a certain age, boys were expected to accept their pain in silence while crying by girls was more tolerated. At that time , we lived in a very distinct male/female role model society with little idea of gender equality.

There was a story that I read years ago by a author called Banjo from Australia. The story I think was called “the babysitter” and it was about three roommates in an apartment.Two 20s something females and a immature twenty some year old male that they had decided needed a babysitter and the babysitter turned out to be a high school volleyball player that believed in giving bare bottom spankings. Does anyone remember it or know how to find it?

Banjo did have a blog years ago, if it’s still there, the story might be on that. I used to correspond with him, but he hasn’t contacted me for a long time. If you do like that sort of thing have a look at Phi Gamma Beta #4.

Smachtai

That sucked for all the children but especially the boys. It’s good that at least some girls were sympathetic to boys that couldn’t bear it and cried instead of rubbing it in though.