tfs:
Best wishes to both of you and a little advice. Ask questions, especially if your not comfortable with what you're being told by the doctors. Talk to the nurses (sisters). They spend more time with the patient than the doctors and often have a better feel for what's going on (my wife's nurse).
I can actually do a bit more than ask questions as my own background is actually in pharmacology and pathology, so I do know exactly what they
should be doing ... getting them to do it is another matter though!
