Elorac, I know how you feel as it relates to keeps no our desires under wraps in fear of being ridiculed and rejected. I've personally gone through this, so I know first hand just how harmful it can be. If not my own relationship with my beloved wife, she is aware of my proclivities and has been over knee on a few occasions. However, many St of these sessions were mild foreplay that always seemed to spice things up, but I knew that it wasn't all that I wanted to explore with her. For the first time in my life, I actually wanted to be over a lap instead of being the Top, just to shake things up. I can only attest thus to the fact that I love her and trust her completely and was able to open up about it. I do feel that there are times that instead of arguing about this or that, we could solve it by dishing out a firm, long, good old fashioned spanking that would clear the air. Only people like us can even begin to understand that for some, spanking in certain settings isn't just a "weird kink", but something altogether different |