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#11 | Posted: 12 Jan 2015 22:37
It's all personal. For some people, spanking is just the first taboo of many, and that first liberating experience is a part of a journey. For others, like myself, spanking is the destination. From a young age, I started spanking girls and I haven't gained any flexibility over the years. I don't want to switch, nor do I have any interest in male spanking. It's just my taste and it's been hard wired to me that way for a long time, and I'm glad for it.

I hope that people with different tastes are able to explore them the way I have mine, but like in most cases, I don't think there's much to the slippery slope theory.

ohiomom
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#12 | Posted: 13 Jan 2015 01:43
Okay, I will jump in with female point of view I may be more willing to try some things, but like others I am probably not going to too far. No bodily fluids, coffins, etc. But that's not to mean I won't explore other things with my husband.

Robert56
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#13 | Posted: 13 Jan 2015 21:25
My interest is in spanking only with women only. I allowed one to explore her dominant side on me (posted about this on the initial thread on this subject) I have no interest in spanking a male. I am however also interested in female examinations. Don't know whether there is a connection here or not. What I can say is that any spanking fantasies I may have would only involve females on the receiving end.

jimscribner
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#14 | Posted: 17 Mar 2015 18:23
According to Freud we are all bisexually oriented as children and subconsciously learn cultural inhibitions that make us feel uncomfortable engaging in various types of behavior with members of particular genders which is the origin of homophobia as well as homosexual preferences. So far as spanking goes as a child I enjoyed playing spanking games with my two younger sisters as well as friends and cousins of both genders but after I became a teenager I became very inhibited about being labelled a Gay sissy which is probably a wise career move for guys since Gay guys have statistically lower incomes although given that Lesbians have higher than average incomes statistically girls really don't have to worry much about showing their Madonna side. Men who behave strangely tend to spook people more than women for some reason...like the astronomically higher percentage of men than women in jail for murder, assault, and sex crimes possibly. As a teenager I felt a bit of envy towards women and experimented with cross dressing in private sometimes trying to imagine what it would be like to be a girl put across somebody's knee but after I spent my first three years in the Army I became comfortable with being a manly man and realized I made a much more attractive guy than a girl. My spanking fetish definitely influenced my interest in a lot of things such as films and television shows and books with spanking scenes in them as well as giving me a lot of feelings of resentment against any Freddy Wertham or Benjamin Spock witch hunting for pedophile rapists and Nazi psychopaths neither of which I've ever been. It also no doubt encouraged my interest in psychology in which I have a cum laude degree now and gave me a healthy appreciation of it's potential for bias and abuse.

mobile_carrot
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#15 | Posted: 17 Mar 2015 19:35
A few years down the line and I'm really only interested in spanking in all its variations. Someone did put some nipple clamps on me once and I safeworded in about three seconds.

SNM
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#16 | Posted: 19 Mar 2015 19:09
I think that exploring your own sexuality is always going to make you discover new things about it. For instance, it wasn't until I started exploring my spanking interest that I realized I was also into bondage and voyeurism, and I've turned sightly bi-curious.

dancingstupid
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#17 | Posted: 21 Mar 2015 23:14
Nope. Does not lead to other stuff unless u want it to.

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