Does size matter?

I would like a man to be stronger than me and force me into the position and hold my hands and legs and spank me. I'm 5'2 and 112 pounds. I'm not so much into the idea of submitting on my own like you are all talking about. In most stories and videos the spankee submits to the spanking. So it must be what most people are into.

This was told to me as a true story several years ago. There was a small woman who lived in the American west in the 19th century. After her husband passed away, neighbors wondered how she would manage to discipline her 3 overgrown sons, who were adult in years, but not in their behavior. Some of her neighbors were passing by her cabin one day, when they heard screams from inside. Suddenly the door burst open, and the three sons poured out of the cabin. Their mother followed behind them, a bullwhip in her hand. Every few seconds, she would get close enough to pop one of the sons across his rear with the whip. He would scream. By the time she had chased them out of sight, each of the sons had received several licks with the whip. After that, the neighbors stopped worrying about her ability to handle discipline problems.
I want to point out that I'm not in any way endorsing the mother's behavior. I don't think the whip was an appropriate instrument of discipline. I had an uncle, who had a scared back for the rest of his life, after the last time his father used a whip on him.

Yes, a bullwhip is not appropriate. There's a book by Wilbur Smith (When the Lion Feeds) which contains a scene where the father attacks the main character (Sean Courtney) with a buggy whip because his son has lied to him (Sean is probably 17 - 18 at this point). Sean turns away and the whip actually cuts his shirt open and leaves a thin red line down his ribs. He later pulls the whip from his father's hand and winds up knocking him out.

I suppose it depends on the scenario, and the dynamic between spanker and spankee. A situation where a larger, stronger spankee was physically forced into a spanking position or held down for a spanking by a smaller, weaker spanker would not be very believable, especially in a video where the size difference would be obvious (though I can imagine exceptions, for example a petite, delicate-seeming spanker who is able to subdue a large, but clumsy spankee through a knowledge of martial arts).

It would be more believable for a smaller spanker to control a larger spankee if the spankee had some psychological need to be spanked (guilt feelings, for example), if the spanker had some hold over them (for instance being in a position to reveal some damaging secret about them), or by sheer force of personality.

Delivering the actual spanking wouldn't really be a problem for a relatively weak spanker - there are so many tools and implements that don't require much force to produce a sting!

Once I started writing a story about a young boy whose parents had died of a severe disease, leaving their once-luxurious mansion in a terrible state of neglect, and only one servant remained there. The boy returned to his old home to find the servant there. They were supposed to bond as close friends and set off on adventures, and at one point the young boy was supposed to take the servant lovingly over his lap for a spanking. I imagined that the servant cried out of guilt, not because of the spanking, as the kid wasn't strong enough to cause severe pain. But I never continued the story

Hey incisron.... I now want to read that story of yours...so get busy and continue it for posting here please!!!

CS

Hugs thanks Canada! I will certainly try to continue as I catch up on my other story!

Of course size doesn't matter. However, given the choice l would always prefer to spank a female smaller than me.

I'm pretty plump, so I kind of agree, redandsore LOL.