Pet Hates

I hate it that the male actors are so often less attractive than the female ones.

Yeah, that's another one. Male subs who are ludicrously old and or fat to be over the knee of the pretty young thing spanking them.

ChardT, I was just getting ready to post that. Yep, that's another one. With the ladies a video can more or less get away with it, but with a guy it just doesn't look natural or appealing.

I too find it off-putting to see a girl take her knickers down and have marks from a previous session clearly visible. That said, for the producers, I imagine the only cost effective way of shooting is to do several scenes with the same model in a day, particularly if she has some distance to travel.

I do at least appreciate those on-screen tops who acknowledge it ("well, I see you've still got the marks from yesterday's detention, Hannah") rather than ludicrously pretend they can't see anything.

I'd definitely agree that the male spankees are rarely as good looking as the female ones.

My pet peeve is where the spanker rubs the bottom in a lascivious way when it's supposed to be punishment. This blurs the boundaries too much for my taste

I also agree that there are way too many tats about, I suppose I could go along with one small one but anything more is ugly.
And i am sorry if us old male spanko's look ugly, we can't help it - and where else can we get our kicks if not across a woman's lovely lap getting a hot sore bum!

Really hairy male subs are also a bit of turn off, probably as much for the spanker as anyone watching it.

This is one of the reasons why I rarely watch spanking clips. I get so tired of the inequality. Perhaps it's simply lack of interest from young male models, but it irritates me that almost every female model has to be attractive, yet it's a rarity for the men.


It isn't so much "ugliness" as it is the fact that most of the male spanking models are further along in the aging process... and it shows. There's nothing wrong with it, and I don't want to sound harsh towards the male actors. But at the same time, it is frustrating to see that as the norm for men when there are next to no older and/or heavyset female models involved.

Flip the sexes there, and I suspect you'll find it much less appealing.

One thing I really hate is clips where the spanker verbally abuses the spankee, either by swearing or using derogatory terms. It changes what can appear to be a well deserved bottom warming into something much crueller and unappealing