Does a hot, sore, red or red-striped bottom make for better sex?

Based upon my top experience I would say it most definitely stimulates the juices! Even in those non-sexual "play partner" relationships it certainly seems to create excitement ...and again from my experience, I might add for both the participants.

*SNM gets some popcorn and sits back*

It certainly does in my imagination. I have no experience otherwise.

I doubt this very much. Although some women may, I have spoken with women who find the idea repugnant.

Absolutely untrue! I can think of few things more revolting than that!

Although many women would not want to be spanked by their actual father even those women often get turned on by being spanked by a father figure.

The simple answer for me is... Yes. And the reason why is simple. After getting spanked for something serious, my number one concern plagues my soul from one moment to the next. And that is an intense desire not to earn her displeasure again anytime soon. You can bet your bottom dollar that my number one concern is pleasing her in all ways, and that includes sexually if she so desires. I really REALLY don't like being spanked like that, but you can be assured that sex is actually the last thing on my mind at that point, which as a guy I am sure has a lot to do with my staying power. So my focus is totally on her really. I don't really care one bit if I get off. Seriously! If I get spanked erotically, well that really is a different story isn't it? It sure helps then though as well. Why? Because it is an intimate and submissive act that appeals to us both. I can't really get into much more detail than that as it is a private matter between my spouse and I, but let's just leave it with this: There really isn't many more acts that prove that you are willing to do anything for your lover like submitting to a spanking now is there? It's fun because we enjoy the act of spanking erotically as much as one can enjoy other sexual acts and attempt to practice at them to be a better lover. Like oral sex and such. Okay? So there you have it.

Regards,
Christian

Absolutely yes specially for me, but my wife also finds it erotic while spanking me. She says its my reaction after the caning that is an extra turn on for her.

In my limited experience with it, spanking has never failed to put me in the mood, whether it is for discipline or just for fun. I think it makes for great sex, but not necessarily better.


Maybe SOME of those women do, but I can honestly say that, for me, being spanked by any sort of father figure would be a turn off rather than a turn on.

It amazes me that there are still people around who are naive (or arrogant maybe?) enough to lump ALL of women into one group

Despite being part of 'all women' I can't think of much worse than this particular assertion...

*Wanders off shaking head in bemused irritation having despaired of humanity*