Spanking "bucket list"

My apologies if this has already been covered.
While surfing the net for guess what, I came across quite a few spanking bucket lists.
Anyone who regularly reads the smalltalk will know what mine will be, so I wont bore you with them.
Do any others have spanking bucket lists? Real or fantasy. Let us know.

Humm... Let's see.

1. See a female spanker spank another female bare bottom and knowing I am next in line.

2. Having a spanker who enjoys spanking, not someone who has to be talked into it.

3. Spanked in drop seat PJ's in front of a group of ladies.

4. Have my wife bring a friend home and tell me they had been talking and her (female) friend would spank me.

5. Wade, over here now!

I like the look of 1&4 Wade.

I would like to see spanking go mainstream. Look at all the hype over Keira Knightly being spanked in her last movie- or not being spanked, because "she doesn't do inconvenient sting."
Sometimes I think BSDM- it is so easy to find- is more mainstream than simple smacks on a bare tush. And I never see men spanked, perhaps a few teens - I know sites are out there, but spanked women are common place and extremely easy to find. Where is the equality of the sexes!! I wonder why women are more likely to be dominated than men? I wonder why spanked men are more rare- in the mainstream?

In mainstream media spanked men are treated as a joke. In fact it's perfectly all right in a sitcom, for example, for a woman to give a man a smack on the rear or to allude to a spanking. I think it happened in one of those doctor shows, Scrubs or Grey's Anatomy. The reverse is not true. It is taboo to even suggest that a woman should be spanked for some behavioral act or omission because this would anger the Hollywood feminist crowd as "abuse" by a man. Remember when Ricky spanked Lucy? Would not happen today. Only in crime dramas (Weeds) or in gritty medieval settings like Game of Thrones could it happen because the abusive subtext gives the producer a pass to show dramatic realism. But it would never be shown lightheartedly, as a titillating joke, to have hubby spanking the "little woman" for burning the toast on any comedy or romance. Can you imagine the outrage if an M/F spanking had occurred on "Friends"? Or on a soap opera?

I'm with IC. I'd love to see spanking go mainstream. Joe the King was one of the best.

The odd thing is years ago spanking scenes were very common in mainstream films and tv.
Happy Valley, I Love Lucy, The Life And Loves Of A She Devil, and many John Wayne films, to name but a few.

Ooh, I like all this! Especially 1, 2, and 4.

Spanking as discipline is rare in the mainstream but spanking as foreplay is pretty common nowadays where in past times it wasn't. As I have mentioned here before if I type "spanking" or "spank" into my cable TV search engine about three dozen shows for the next two weeks will show up, most on the adult channels.

Actually there was an episode of Friends where Pheobe mentioned to her boyfriend/fiancee Mike that she liked some bedroom spanking action.

There was another Friend ep where Mike was challenging Monica to a highly competitive game of table tennis. At the time Mike was winning Pheobe said to him "we are taking this paddle home Mr!" with a mischievous grin.


Also on Desperate Housewives there have been many spanking references. In the first season Bree's Husband confessed to having a love of BDSM (and had been seeing a mistress for this purpose). Also in later seasons, there have been a few references to Carlos spanking Gabby. She claimed that if she didn't pick up his pie, Carlos would go all (couldn't catch name.. but obviously am American known for being a spanko) on her backside! In another episode Carlos actually creeps up on Gabby when she is caught out for lying to him, and he is seen on camera giving her a one-off slap on the butt. From his demeanour and her previous mentions of Carlos spanking her, one could easy assume there would have been more to follow. It didn't come across as abusive or anything. In fact the character of Gabby well deserves a few good spankings so it seemed perfectly justified.

There have also been a a couple of spankings in the Underbelly series... one as sexy play and the other in Razor) as punishment I believe.