spankingtheatre:
Which raises an intriguing question, what is more fulfilling: the rich virtual dreamworld of the imagination, or a fully rendered adaption projected directly into our eyes?
Not that easy a question to answer, for me.
I'd have to answer in thirds. At times, literature paints the most vivid landscape and arouses and fulfills. At other times, video is better and fulfills and sates. At other times still, only a bouncing beauty's buns over my lap is the only thing to sate and satisfy (yet that obviously isn't a story).
Hear me out, when you talk about "satisfying" or "arousing" the imagination should reign supreme, but is based on human limitations. One can only imagine as much as our experiences. If our experiences are few or none, then the imagination is all we have to base on. Yet that can only sate so far...
Video adaption brings the real thing closer to fulfilling and allows imagination to fill in the missing parts, so to speak, but sometimes our imagination is better because we might be "particular" in our tastes, and would prefer "more romantic" over "more brutal," or "more slipper" over "more paddle." I'm sure you get the idea. We are talking about what we perceive as the "perfect" spanking. Honestly, I have great issue with some tops in videos: with the way they take too long "dressing down," or reiterate too much, or the "Parkinson's like" wagging of the hand to make it seem like there is more action going on than there actually is. I think, sometimes, the top tries to top the viewer; to drag out the anticipation as much as they can instead of just getting to it.
edit: Something else that really rouses anger over arousal in video, is the predication of the top to look into the bottoms face, or see the bottoms facial reactions while administering said punishment, which often means that they are not focusing on what they are "doing," meaning that a slap (or, heaven forbid, crop, or paddle strike) goes far afield from the desired target, "but who cares because it's only about 'pain', and there's no such thing as 'bad pain' and 'good pain', right?"I don't think anybody would disagree that a real-life experience trumps all else, as that SHOULD take the cake. And yet sometimes...
I'll try to be more succinct and analytical. Literature can be fulfilling if it provides enough detail for the imagination without becoming too verbose. Video can be more fulfilling if it can be poignant without too much window dressing. Ultimately, we are seeking to fulfill in those two forms of media what we are missing out on; real life experiences. Yet how often is the chase, more fulfilling than the capture? Which brings us back to imagination.
Therefore, we have come back to my first statement that answering the question isn't easy for me.