Hi,
Boy for a thread about the F/M spanking from the spanker's perspective, this hasn't been a rip roaring success!
Whilst I am by far and away usually the spankee (spanked by both men and women), I do occasionally like to turn the tables to.
I have probably only spanked 5 or 6 make bottoms in my time, all boy friends. A couple needed some persuading to give it a try but as I had persuaded them to spank my behind perviously. They were always rewarded after spanking me with a spot of love making. They eventually gave it a go F/M and all enjoyed it to one extent of another - every one had an erection by the end which was good! A couple chose not to repeat the exercise despite having again been able to have their way with me. The exception is Tom, my husband. He enjoys the occasional spanking for sure.
We have developed a pack of cards for use in role play. There are three cards to choose. Card one - general scenario - school, office shopping mall, park, car etc. The second is more specific - bad behaviour, lateness, swearing, stealing etc. The third is a role decider - there are 12 cards, 11 are marked M/F (our usual method) the 12th is M/F. We love the jeapody.
We both enjoy the F/M ones when they come out. Tom is 6feet 1inch and built like a rugby player. As he is therefore naturally very heavy (I am only 5 foot 3) we tend to do this on the couch where is weight is better distributed. When he is bared I put him over my knee with my thighs bared and a towel on the seat. I usually like to warm up the bottom I am going to spank with some gentle strokes and taps - this was usually what the boy friends liked the most. Then I like the spanking to slowly build. From my perspective, there is nothing more pleasing than the squirm your man makes as the burn starts to take effect. Usually by now he is hard and buried deep between my thighs. He sometimes cuts before I am finished, hence the towel. I don't mind, I am trying to give satisfaction. Besides, he's soon ready for action again. I usually go over his knee first though, well it is hardly fair not to at least offer.
So, nothing violent, nothing vicious just good clean fun and one or two sore bottoms which completely does it for us.
Are there any other ladies out there who would like to share their views on what is supposed to be a female led discussion??
PS
Apologies chaps, I am not having a go at you for the posts above, all very interesting, just sorry more ladies haven't joined in on the discussion. |