First of all, I like reading a range of stories here, and often quite enjoy them, that aren't 'my thing.' I also have played around with writing stories that diverge from my core, ideal scenario.
The basic components for me to really, really resonate with it: 1. Not consensual. The powerlessness and loss of control are big. 2. A male authority figure spanker, usually but not always husband/romantic partner. 3. It has to be in some way just. Not given in error, or because the spanker is in a temper, but because a transgression has to be punished. Not disproportionate either. A caning for a minor lapse in manners would strike me as abusive, not disciplinary, and be a turn off, as would "I'll thrash you until you can't sit for a week" sorts of language. 4. It has to be in a loving context, or, if a teacher sort of thing, at least caring. Not "you screwed up, this is my revenge and boy is it gonna hurt," but "you did wrong, for your own good you must be taught not to do this, and unfortunately for you a good spanking/session with the belt is a highly effective way to teach that, but in the long term you'll benefit from it."
Having said that, writing things that differ from this is fun and more challenging, plus I don't want to grow too repetitive. |