Redskinluver:
we'd have as many or more lively discussions on non-spanking topics as we did on the subject itself.
I completely agree with this sentiment Redskinluver, the best friendships that I've made in the spanking "scene" (for lack of a better word) are those where we can have long and engaging discussions about all sorts of vanilla things (and spanking of course!). I would say the proportion of vanilla conversation with my closest spanko friends is perhaps 75%, though we tend to circle back to spanking quite often.