GlaglaSince you already spilled the beans, I won't feel bad to add my 2 cents.
Then it was even better emphasized by the female lead stating that it wasn't okay, well, unless it was consensual.
True! but it could have been better. It was comedic that she fessed up that it might be okay under certain circumstances, BUT what is her guy's reaction? Blank slate. Frozen cold. Stoic. Nothing.
To keep the comedic element going, and bring main stream up to date in accepting, he could have looked surprised at her admittance and acceptance like "wait, what? really?" or he might have held his chin and smiled like "hmm, that's food for thought" but no. Nothing. Why? Because women are "allowed" to suggest something kinky, and it's okay to main stream, but if a man expresses interest and acceptance, then he is letcherous, and the scene becomes pornographic.
As Goodgulf said, it wasn't erotic, but I feel, if he reacted in any way, then it would have become erotic, and thereby not suitable for cable/the channel/whatever.