I think we'd all agree that negotiation and consent are incredibly imporant parts of TTWD. To the extent that a spankee (or a spanker for that matter) does not consent to the use of certain types of implement, whatever the reason, then that needs to be respected.
Either way, I don't see anything particularly offensive about a vegan or vegetarian choosing to not play with leather implements, much like I don't think it's offensive for a vegan or vegetarian to choose to not consume animal products more broadly. I gather that the OP is based in the UK which is still, by and large, a free country (notwithstanding some recent moves to implement some puritanical laws). As the OP I think quite rightly noted: "her choice, of course". |