In following galt54's self-analysis, there are a few themes that seem to recur in most of my fantasies.
It usually goes something like this: at the start, the two parties are both attracted to each other, but may or may not consciously realize it. The spanker decides to take advantage of the spankee, using manipulation, official power, or force to coerce the spankee over his/her knee. The spankee is outraged and unwilling at first, but quickly realizes that s/he is actually enjoying this (though the spankee may not admit this right away, even to him/herself). By the end of the story, the spankee becomes a willing participant. This dynamic works best with a playful, manipulative dom and a more innocent and naive sub.
To quote Anonymous on this type of erotic fantasy: "It isn't rape: its surprise sex that the girl starts to enjoy halfway through."
I have no idea what, if anything, this says about me. I really am unsure if there's any correlation between my sexuality and any other part of my personality. It is worth mentioning, though, that with a few exceptions I have little interest in stories where the sub is truly not enjoying the proceedings.
galt54:
Why don´t the rest of you here do what I did? I took the very best spanking fantasy that I could come up with, wrote it down and posted it right her in The Spanking Library as a story. I actually did that. My story is on this site. My author´s name is the same as my tag - "galt54" - and the title of my (very funny) story is - "My Very Best Wet Dream". Check it out.
I have been meaning to do this for quite a long time. My top dominant fantasy was originally going to be chapter four of a canceled serial (dunno when and how I'll end up writing the scene now). My top submissive one is the subject of a planned serial that I've been meaning to start on for almost six months. I've been suffering chronic writer's block.
I'll make sure to check out your story, though.