Had my second spanking and have a concern

IF you made no blood as a hard limit, then as all the other wise advice here has said, run and do not return.

Clear and unequivocal communication is the key.

DROP HER AT ONCE! Never go back and see her again. Never make an appointment with her again. She sounds dangerous, and it would be better if you never got spanked again than if you continued to see her. I don;t say this lightly, I know how much I want, even need, a spanking at times. It's probably the same for you. She gets paid for what she does, but she sure didn't act like a professional in dealing with you.
As for her request to tie you up, no, no,never. Bondage is something that should be done only with someone you trust. She has proven she is not worthy of your trust. Who knows what she would do to you if she had you helpless. Believe me, you do not want to find out. Don't let her tie you up, don't let her spank you again, don't have anything more to do with her.

Agree with what everyone said. Don't come back to her and post a bad review somewhere. I could understand if she maybe misjudged the severity a bit and caused a few drops of blood somewhere. That is possible and hard to control given the severity of the session. But in the case, a professional reaction would stop immediately, apologize and disinfect the wound... Her reaction is absolutely non professional and dangerous...

The other issue, do you trust that she disinfects all her tools well? Perhaps you should consider getting a Tetanus shot?

It seems this gal has never heard " the customer is always right,'' If you are paying she is obeying.
Or you are out of there- for your own well being.
Islandcarol

As others have stated, if I were you, I would not continue to see this woman. I have been part of the BDSM community for the last 7.5 years, and safety and respect for limits should be the top priority of any Top/Dom/Domme etc. If you stated that you did not want any bleeding, you set a hard limit. She broke that limit, and from your description, did not seem to care. Bleeding can happen by accident, of course, as has happened to me before. However, if bleeding occurred, she should have stopped the scene to handle that and see where you wanted to go from there. Instead, she blew off your concerns. This is a huge red flag to me. I do not feel that this woman is safe for you to see, as she does not respect your limits and your safety.

I have to disagree with the crowd, it seems you are into... Of course not! I have no experience with this sort of thing, but, from my experience in other areas I'd say that if someone takes that sort of a liberty with you once (and especially giving you that sort of reaction) they will keep taking such liberties. I'd say you are in an unsafe position there so I concur with the majority. You are the costumer, it is your time, your money, your decisions.

I am very experienced and there is no way I would see her again.

This kind of behaviour and attitude is becoming more and more prevalent I'm afraid.

There are many so called 'Professional Disciplinarians' out there who's arrogance knows no end.

They absolutely refuse the use of a 'safeword' and insist that THEY, and not you, know what your limits are.

Some have even told me that they would insist on the right to push me past my limits if I were to session with them.

I've had many arguments on various forums with these Women and their egotism is quite astonishing.

I believe it's the term 'Professional' that confuses them, and in some cases, goes to their heads.
So much so, that they begin to believe that they actually have some kind of formal qualification, and thereby expertise, that we should acknowledge.

To balance the books though I should add that I've had many excellent sessions with Ladies who don't fall into this category.

I agree with all the others my friend...move on and find a PD who will do what YOU want.