As others have stated, if I were you, I would not continue to see this woman. I have been part of the BDSM community for the last 7.5 years, and safety and respect for limits should be the top priority of any Top/Dom/Domme etc. If you stated that you did not want any bleeding, you set a hard limit. She broke that limit, and from your description, did not seem to care. Bleeding can happen by accident, of course, as has happened to me before. However, if bleeding occurred, she should have stopped the scene to handle that and see where you wanted to go from there. Instead, she blew off your concerns. This is a huge red flag to me. I do not feel that this woman is safe for you to see, as she does not respect your limits and your safety. |