Received my first spanking as an adult

Hello all. I have fantasized about spanking most of my life,but never acted upon it until last week. I contacted a local dominatrix who listed spanking on her webpage. I told her I was new and not really into leather,but more of a domestic discipline look such as a teacher or governess. I also asked if it was possible to be spanked with a wooden hairbrush,scolded,and placed in the corner. The dominatrix was very accommodating to my fantasy. We spoke on the phone about one week before the session and set everything up. I was nervous the day of the session,but was also excited. The dominatrix looked like a strict no nonsense teacher and wasted no time in scolding me about my poor behavior. I was mesmerized as she took me to task. It was a 90 min session and I was not given a safeword. This was to be a real spanking. I started out otk with hand and brush and then we moved on to a strap and ultra thick wooden paddle. I am officially scared of this paddle. My teacher then spanked me with a solid wooden ruler and then the hairbrush again. The session was painful but I endured. I was then told to lay on a table and was shown a thick wooden cane. I was told I was to receive 10 strokes and if I complained it would be 20. The cane was very painful and I am fearful of it after that session. I also have the utmost respect for our English brothers and sisters after receiving it. I was almost in tears.in short my whole bottom was deep purple and was very sore. It hurt to sit. I still have bruising from last Tuesday,but it doesn't hurt. Despite this I enjoyed my session and will most likely return.

Congratulations and thank you for sharing your experience of this turning point in your life. You give a good description, though perhaps at the end there you meant "Because of" rather than "Despite"?

Have you thought about writing about your fantasies of similar experiences? F/M stories are very popular here in the Library and yours would I'm sure be warmly welcomed.

Well done. Many people have fantasies but remarkably few pluck up the courage to do anything about them. I hope you can develop your fantasy and remember your Teacher will, I am sure, be happy to refine the experience for you, so that next time (assuming there is a next time) it will be even better.
90 minutes and no safeword, shows you were determined to have a real experience. It sounds that you found a real professional who dealt with you correctly.
Good luck for the next time

Thank you both. Going into it I honestly had no idea what I could take,but I went in with the mindset of not having a choice,although I am quite sure she would have stopped if I said mercy or something. I watch spanking videos and I have no idea how someone could endure 100,200 strokes. I bet I would have cried if I had to take 30 or so.

Wow, this sounds like quite the session. Certainly a lot more than any of the women I ever met for one-on-one sessions. Most did not want any marks at all. The one exception is a Canadian women who met me in Columbus, OH with her husband. Now this lady could really take it.

Wow, that's quite a session for a first experience, a baptism of fire it seems.
I hope it fuels your fire and that you can build your experience and develop it, however you feel necessary. Reality is quite different to fantasy, but we can live with a combination of both, each having their own merits.
Good luck and thank you for sharing.

Congrats for working up the nerve to act on your fantasies! This is no small step-and neither is the sharing of it with us! I am very intrigued by your description of your experience, and would love to know more-there is certainly a story in there!

Thank you very much for sharing.

As a switch, I was impressed with your courage and fortitude. I have both received and given spankings and canings, and I am not a professional. I love the teacher-pupil scenario because it makes me conjure up visions of ho my teachers might have punished me had they been permitted to do so. I am sure that most CP habitues will respect your taking what sounds like quite a major imposition! Something in our psyches needs this kind of stimulation.

Congratulations! I feel ya. I recently (that is, within the last couple years) got to experience my own first real spankings. I'm 50 years old, and I have been writing spanking fiction since I was 14 years old. The characters in my stories, specifically the spankees, have not aged along with me, so my stories feature teenaged girls being spanked by parents or teachers.

Because everything I write is complete fiction, where no real person actually gets hurt, my stories tend to subject these teen girls to completely outrageous spankings that go on into the hundreds of blows. At some point in my late 40s, I started to wonder, "Could *I* take a spanking like the ones I write?"

As luck would have it, shortly before my 48th birthday, I met a local woman (in a bar) who is a fellow kinkster. I had just ended up sitting at the same table with her and her friend, because the bar was crowded, and I saw some empty chairs and asked, "Do you mind if I sit here?" I overheard some conversation between her and her friend, and realized I was sitting with a fellow spanko. I identified myself as "one of those", and we hit it off. She was a few years older than me, and identified as a "sub".

A couple months later, I was at that bar on my 48th birthday, and she offered to let me spank her as a birthday present. I thought about it, and then turned it around: I asked her to give me a birthday spanking. We went back to my place, and she administered 48 solid spanks to my ass, using the various lame implements I had.

Later, she hooked me up with the FetLife community, and between her and the Internet, I met a local Domme. I found a company that makes spanking implements, and started buying toys that matched up with the implements used in my stories ... and then I asked that Domme to help me recreate some of the spankings that I had written, with myself as the spankee. I seriously wanted to find out if I, an adult male, could endure the same spankings that my writing had subjected teenage girls to.

Answer: Yes. Yes I could. I had purchased a paddle made of oak, long enough to cover both butt cheeks at once. I handed that to this Domme and told her to give me 300 good hard whacks.

She did. And I took it. HURT LIKE HELL! But I forced myself to endure the pain.

It was AWESOME!

Well done, and thanks for sharing!!