Alan, you indicated that:
"For the first group, spanking is the warm-up act before the main event. For the second group, spanking IS the main event. Of course, the spanking might well cause sexual arousal in the second group, and it might lead to some sort of sexual relief. The important factor is that, for them, the spanking is the very heart and soul of the experience."
It might also be interesting to consider another group of people--those who read stories about spanking. Although I have no evidence to support this suspicion, I suspect that the number of people coming to the LSF to read stories about spanking (and hopefully to comment) is far greater than the number actually engaging in spanking activities with partners because of logistics, personal constraints, and a host of other reasons.
Couched in terms of readers of spanking stories rather than those who actually participate with partners in physical spanking activities, the issue you raised, posed as a question, would be:
"Is the act of reading a spanking story a warm-up for a main event, or is the act of reading the spanking story THE main event?"
First, in this scenario, what might the "main" event be? I can't envision someone saying to his/her vanilla spouse or significant other who is already in bed, "Just wait there baby, this spanking story is really really hot and I'm almost finished and I'll be there in just a minute to jump your bones." Nor can I imagine someone repeatedly saying, "Honey, hop into bed now because I'm just about done with this database chore from work. You know how databases make me horny." If anything, he/she would surreptitiously read a spanking story and then go into the bedroom. But coordination problems would make this exceedingly difficult to pull off effectively in the long run.
I suspect, and again I have no evidence to support this suspicion, that most of us who read stories, poems, etc. here do so alone and if there is any sexual release we provide that release ourselves. Some of us may find that reading the story, etc. is a warm up before the main event, viz, masturbation. Some may masturbate while in the process of reading the story. And still others may find that reading the story is an end in itself and no masturbation is necessary. Or perhaps masturbation becomes necessary after a critical mass of stories have been read.
I have to wonder if we have, among our male readers, keyboards with keys that stick. Keys that stick because the readers have become so overcome with the joy of reading an expertly crafted spanking story that the tears of their joy have sprayed upon the keyboard and found their way in the small crevices between key and keyboard surface. Readers so afflicted may be comforted with the knowledge that washable plastic keyboard protectors can be easily acquired by searching the net. |