Your house, your rules, so whatever you say is 'the unchallengeable law', and if i had to make the decision it would be, a very big and very definite NO.
There are warning alarm bells ringing from so many areas, it frankly feels like we would be awaiting for the unhappy ending.
Talking as someone who had their 'issues' as a teen, i would not welcome someone like her (or as i was) across the threshold of my home.
Regarding dealing with your son, and you being scared your son will do something crazy, you as his mother know him the best and will know the best way of getting your message across to him.
The above is only my personal opinion based upon the message you have posted. i wish you the best in your dealing with this situation, and hope matter is resolved to your satisfaction. |