Domestic Discipline

I have found a blog called Die Starke Frau (The Strong Woman in German) which is now on bloglovin (formerly on blogspot). It's written by a German lawyer named Tina who is dominant and writes very penetrating and moving posts about her own life and relationships. Recently she has included some links to a series of domestic discipline clips featuring a very realistic couple. They struck me as unusually good--reading the thread about spankingtube prompted this note.

How many people on here are in a DD relationship, how many are F/m and M/f or even F/f or M/m ?
Is this blog in German ? What is the direct link ?

Is it just me or is dd more commonly practiced than I had imagined?

I'd looked at the "Die Starke Frau" blog earlier, but it temporarily shut down a while back--although I believe it was announced as a permanent closure, which fortunately turned out to be inaccurate.

I watched several of the videos featuring the tall, pretty blonde woman disciplining her prematurely gray-haired husband, using a wicked-looking cane (from Texas, no less), a leather strap (while he was bound with his arms suspended overhead) and several paddles (which he seemed to dislike the most).

The lady did discuss the reasons for his punishment with her spouse--she was really annoyed with that inept, wimpy handyman who'd worked for them, and her hubby's naked buttcheeks certainly paid for it.

All of the videos I saw showed her in the spanko-dominant role, but her lecturing and questioning indicated that their 'domestic discipline' relationship is two-way, presumably somewhat like the type promoted under the classic Spenser Spanking Plan.

Those videos did strike me as quite believable, except that the sexual content in one of them (the suspended strapping) should've been avoided, I thought--a truly punitive spanking shouldn't be followed by erotic relations, or at least not by sexual release for the chastised person. (The cunnilingus following the three-paddle walloping, I found that more plausible since the blonde spanker did deserve a reward for the stress she'd earlier been put under without her mate resolving the situation.)

Anyway, "danke" for the link... --C.K.

I only briefly looked at 2 of the video clips, and I may be wrong (it has happened occasionally, okay, more than occasionally), but I think the spanker is the professional disciplinarian, Elizabeth Burns, The dirty blond hair and, especially her bangs, are two of her trademarks, along with the ability to roast naughty male and female behinds. If that's the case, then the video is not a real-life couple, but a commercial video which depicts a domestic discipline relationship. From the parts I watched, I agree that it does have a real feel to it, partly because both actors play their roles well. Also, they are both appropriately dressed for their parts. and the setting actually looks like it could be in a house, not a hotel room, or a studio.

I've always had a thing for dd relationship stories/films, possibly because I doubt I could ever be in one, especially if I am the domestically disciplined one. Seems to be a lot of adult responsibility, and a lot of real work involved to avoid a disciplinary spanking, and I try to avoid said work whenever I can. I am like Maynard G. Krebs in that regard.

To answer Regina's question, I have a feeling that most in the spanking community kind of feel the way I do: DD is a great fantasy, a great idea in spirit, but when it comes down to doing it for real. . . well, there are easier, and more pleasurable ways of getting yourself spanked.

Sorry but couldn't resist giving my story, 'Domestic Discipline' a plug on this thread

lesliejones
I had a whole message typed for you and lost it with a misplaced button hit. I'll try to reconstruct.

First I have to agree with smeple on the video. That's definitely Burns and the guy is the owner/operator and participant of Realspankings.com. They are both pros, though they could very well be a couple as well. Usually he does the spanking.....as does she....of young girls, but he has spanked Burns and she obviously has had at him as well.

As to Starke Frau itself? Well from what I've seen both in the past and now, is that she is sincere and does have some interesting views......but she hasn't been able to make a single relationship work out of quite a few attempts. I get the feeling she is eloquent when writing, but perhaps a bit of a sincere, but unfortunate 'train-wreck' in real life. I certainly would not look to her blog as a good DD 'how-to'.

As for DD itself? I snickered at smeple's confession that it titillates his imagination but scares his 'real-world' self. It's good to know what you like to fantasize about and how you want to live. But I disagree that real DD doesn't work for most people. It is difficult but it works for all sorts of people in every orientation...F/M, M/F, F/F, and M/M. (add multiple letters for DD-ers who are poly as well). I have lived differing degrees of DD all of my life with my most intense relationship being my current one. It does work and can be done (we've been at it for 5 years) but like anything worthwhile, it isn't always easy and takes effort. Depending on your orientation there a blogs and forums aplenty for support, information, and comradery. Good luck.

That's why she temporarily shut down her blog, I believe, because her real-life relationships weren't working out well and she wanted to devote more time, effort and attention to them.

Her blog is interesting to read on occasion, plus it does demonstrate that having a 'domestic discipline' relationship is no guarantee of long-term romantic (or even platonic friendship) success, numerous things can still go wrong and sometimes do... --C.K.