Some of us are "Tops", and some of us are "bottoms", and some of us are "switches".
But my question is directed at those who, like me, do not normally "switch".
I'm a "Top". I distinguish "Top" from "Dom": I don't feel like I have the right personality to call myself a "Dom"; I call myself a "Top" because I like to be the one to be delivering a spanking.
But ... sometimes I like to *receive* a spanking.
Full disclosure: the last time I actually got to deliver a proper spanking was ... 25 years ago. I had a girlfriend then who was willing to try anything. Since then ... nothing but my writing.
So, recently (in the last year), I completely by chance ran into some members of the local BDSM community. I was at my regular karaoke bar, and found myself sitting at a table with a pair of women I'd never seen before, because there was nowhere else to sit. I can't explain how it happened, because I was drinking at the time, but somehow the subject of spanking came up, and I instantly identified these two women as fellow "kinksters". One of these women turned out to be the leader of the local FetLife community, and she pointed me at that web site.
Long story short, that woman and I happened to be at that bar on my 48th birthday, last year. The thing is, she is a submissive. She's also married to a vanilla, she's about six years older than me, and morbidly obese All of which factors, aside from the "submissive" part, put her out of any kind of spanking fantasy I might have.
But ... she offered to let me spank her for my birthday.
I politely declined the offer, but made a counter-offer: Why don't YOU give me a birthday spanking?
And so, on my 48th birthday, I dropped my pants and submitted to a bare-bottomed spanking from a natural sub. And, sure, she is a sub, but she's also a mother. And holy fucking cow, she gave me one hell of a spanking! 48 good, hard wallops, using my own implements. She marked me well, and I thoroughly enjoyed the spanking. I even took a picture of the marks she left on me.
Anybody else? |