A lot of people who are into the spanking scene are also into the naturism/nudism scene, too. This of course for men would be CFNM - or, Clothed Female Naked Male. It's the humiliation part of being a spanko. The domination part of it. Some may like a collar put on them and be led around like a puppy. Others may turn to worship of a woman's body part. This is usually their feet or their bottom. (and I don't only mean the cheeks part of their bottom). Some may want a woman to use a strap-on on them. This once again is the domination thing. Some want to be tied up. Others may want to be examined in a medical fetish scenario where either other men or women look on.
Like Shrek said. Ogres are like an onion, and so are spankos. There are layers. One tries the spanking scene, and then one day moves on to the next layer. As far as sex orientation, mine will always be heterosexual. I'm not judgmental and to each their own. A person has to be comfortable with their sexuality to begin with. I was once a member of a great spanking chat room. I spanked guys there, too. Later on we talked about it, and I found that these guys just wanted to be spanked and they didn't care who did it.
Would I do that in real life? No. Simply because they may want something other than a spanking, and I'm not willing to go that route. Does that mean I'm not comfortable with my sexuality? No. It's just not my thing and that's that. As long as what a spanko tries in different ways is safe in both 'health and injury wise' it can really turn into a free for all in their fantasies. |