If I may chime in here for a minute, I'd just like to say that for the record, this type of behavior is in no way biblical as it pertains to a husband dealing with his wife. The CDD lifestyle is just that, a lifestyle and as such it should be entered into with caution. That being said, I've never agreed with it only because it uses the Bible as the reason men are "allowed" to discipline their wives. My thing is this, if you are a spanko, top, bottom or switch, then just come clean and be straight up about it. For a good number of us here, spanking has been a lifelong obsession, even befode we knew what it was exactly. To spank, be spanked, etc., means something special to each one of us, that's why we in the spanko communtiy are so tight knit. It's a very personal type of kink that requires a great deal of trust and disclosure that isn't easily found. Some love a nice, sensuak trip over another's lap for a slow, rhythmic bun warming that may lead to some very yummy "aftercare." Some of us are stressed out or have issues concentrating, so we need a firm hand, belt, paddle, etc., to keep us on the straighf and narrow that has nothing at all to do with anything erotic. The list goes on. Point being, if you want to spank, then spank, just don't use God as an excuse to whip your wife if you feel she's getting oug of hand. |