Older woman

My fiance is 14 years older than me; when we started out, we both liked the "cougar" vs. "boy toy" aspect of our relationship, but now we've been together long enough that it's just "us," without labels.

We wanted the whole package, and it worked for us. It's not the traditional spanking dynamic, but we're about our own dynamic - which is pretty dynamic. My appetite for spanking and her appetite for being spanked align perfectly. Perhaps contrary to what you'd expect, I find my older girl both more open-minded, and more sure about what she wants; we're more adventurous, and she wants to experience things as partners, rather than just seeing what I can do for her. I find her body as sexy as women half her age, and her mind and heart twice as stimulating.

Besides, if her age ever comes up, I simply have to remind her that she'll always be my little girl, and that she's never going to be too old to go over my knee. Maybe she requires a hands on demonstration on occasion, but I always get my point across.

Spanking is sexually stimulating but let's remember that in reality it is not sex anymore than kissing or hugging. There's rational medical reasons why sex is restricted to consenting adults. Sex comes with potentially lethal health risks like AIDS. Spanking does not. Sexual activity among the elderly tends to be unpopular primarily because it's an unnecessary health risk for individuals who aren't capable of biological reproduction of future social security taxpayers any more. Given slower healing rates and more fragile bones it's obviously not a good idea to go around beating the elderly with sticks but it's next to impossible to cause anybody serious injury just by slapping them on the bottom. As the cliche goes, one is never too old to be spanked. The humiliation of being treated like a child is one of the facts of life about growing old ... being retired on a smaller income, not being as physically powerful anymore, no longer being considered as sexually attractive, and having people telling you you're too old to do all sorts of adult activities where childish vanity may delude us into biting off more than we can chew creating problems for other people as well as ourselves. There are few more effective remedies for childish vanity than the reality check of being put across somebody's knee and reminded everybody has their natural limits. Since people without the wisdom to respect their natural limits have considerably lower odds of surviving to old age it's not very surprising that younger people are more likely to get spanked but like with kissing and hugging I don't think there's any rational reason for age limits on spanking. It depends on the individuals and situations.

Older women in there 40's and 50's are the best. Of course, 30's are O. K. as well as 60's. Sorry, 80's and over, not for me.

I dare say that the whole scenario of someone mature being spanked by someone younger has appeal. Reading through the various comments I see that the bulk of comments reflect male top/female bottom.
My scenario is opposite, I am a bottom and at my age all my Tops are younger than me. The youngest lady to spank me is in her early 30's. Now that is sexually stimulating

ck pollmon, I agree with you 100%. I sure love your thoughts. To masterfully command an older woman, be she a mother-in-law type, or a grandmother, who believes she is to old to be spanked on her bare bottom, and deliver said spanking. Plus humiliatingly stand her in the corner, with her panties, knickers or bloomers down around her knees. Can only bring joy to my aged face.

Thank you Jools.

I have been interested having adult daughters,receiving spankings from mothers, inlaws, aunts or grandmas.And in the presence of their children. The ex husband returning the kids, with a wry smile on his face as she is spanked. Tears. Nite. yankee

I just turned 50 and do not regard myself as "dominant". I do love to spank, though, and visit several women in their 40's from time to time. These ladies need an occasional no-nonsense spanking which I am happy to provide.

yankee
Mom re-acquainting her adult daughter with the hairbrush?

The first lady I ever spanked was much older than me at the time - say 60ish.
I think my interest started as I dreamt of spanking schoolmistresses as a boy!