islandcarol:
I have never come across a spanking scene
Well, I suppose I should follow up my original post, although spanking scenes (or spanking references, I should perhaps have said) are definitely not the best reason for reading Alice Munro.
The most detailed scene I know of (I haven't read everything) is the opening story "Royal Beatings" of the collection "The Beggar Maid". The punishments Rose get from her father are not really spankings, but brutal and uncontrolled beatings. Typical for the complexity of Munro's work, the father is not really depicted as cruel — the beatings are outbursts of frustration and helplessness.
The story (or chapter) "Fathers" in "The View from Castle Rock" contains references to beltings the author got from her father in addition to much harsher (but implicit) mistreatment of a neighbor girl by
her farther. There is at least one similar scene in one of the other books — I think "Lives of Girls and Women", but haven't checked.
The only sexual spanking reference I recall, is from the title story of the collection "Runaway". It goes as follows, but is not quite as playful as it may seem as the relationship between the characters are complicated and lopsided:
"If you ever try to run away on me again I'll tan your hide," he said to her,
and she said, "Would you?"
"What?"
"Tan my hide?"
"Damn right". He was high spirited now, irresistible as when she had first
known him.