Malcatraz:
The funny thing is that I always looked at myself as normal and the judgemental vanillas as weirdos. Side note. Not all vanillas are judgemental.
The problem I have is with judgemental people in general not just vanillas.. It always disappoints me when I see people who are into some sort of kinky behavior who consider anything that is not their particular kink as perverted, disgusting or whatever.
For example spankos who are into the spanking of adults but think spanking stories involving anybody under 18 should be banned or those whose kink is teen spanking but think people reading stories of pre-teens are sick. Or how about those people for whom spanking in general is alright but any kind of enema play is sick?
Those are just a few of many examples of judgemental behavior among the kinky set.
Some of the kinkiest people are also the most narrow minded. As for me I may not be turned on by what turns you on but as far as I'm concerned it's "Different strokes for different folks." Don't try to dictate to me what I should like and I won't try to tell you what your interests should be.