You are 100% correct about that. I respect my wife's authority, because ultimately she is a lot smarter and more conservative than I am (while I on the other hand am quite happy to jump off the cliff with my friends lol). You describe it perfectly for me. My conscience is clear, my debt is cleared, my wife forgives me, and now we all can move on to the next adventure. To be perfectly honest, I love my wife so much that the guilt that I have disappointed her is actually the worst part. I would like to say the SPANKING is the worst, but that wouldn't be true. The spanking is my release back into her good graces where I belong. And so that is why I submit to it and accept it (as much as I am currently able to.. Still working on that). And so ultimately, I know I "need" it. I certainly don't "want" it by any means, but it does help tremendously. Now is there ANY part of what I just said that is erotic? No... It is all about forgiveness and absolution. And that is what results in a very happy and content home. At least it does for me. My wife's other submissive has different thoughts on the matter, but the end result is exactly the same. We are all very happy. What could be better than that? There are plenty of things besides spanking that cover the sexual excitement angle in our household lol. And one of them happens to be a very different sort of spanking. One would assume we could easily get confused about that, but the simple fact is our wife is quite adept at making sure we are not confused. And now I should be quiet before I reveal too much and get into trouble lol.
Regards, Christian |