I don't want to dissuade anyone from making more suggestions about other stories to read here, but I also came up with the below description that perhaps is more of a Story Suggestion. there probably aren't any stories that specifically meet the below description, so I am inserting the following Title:
STORY SUGGESTION
I would like to read a story about a true vanilla wife who is reluctant and perhaps even feels that giving a spanking is sinful. Her emotions might range to feelings of rage and frustration that she is asked to do this. She might envision doing something truly violent like stabbing her man or shooting him because of her frustrations. (Of course she would dismiss such thoughts - but be concerned about even having the thoughts)
Eventually, I'd like to read about this woman realizing that her love for the man is what she needs to focus on when she is blistering his backside. Maybe she shifts her perspective from resenting the act of spanking and resorts to identifying real life challenges that she can hold him more accountable for. Perhaps his diet and exercise, perhaps a commitment to spend quality time with the kids, maybe direct him to get that law degree he has talked about for years.
I think the man should express gratitude that she is communicating about her expectations and frustrations because all he really wants is to know what she needs so that he can meet those needs - and he hasn't felt that confidence in their relationship for too long. He has been a spanko since childhood, and as time in the relationship has worn on, each time he gets a hint that she is not thrilled about what he chooses or does, she makes references to his previous mistakes which makes him feel like she is keeping score in order to justify eventually leaving him.
He feels trapped by the need to justify his choices and defend his actions because the consequence of divorce seems unavoidable unless he can persuade her that she is wrong - which he will never be really able to do.
He wants to move forward in partnership with her, but her scorekeeping undermines his confidence in the relationship and perpetuates the cycle. At his core, he wants to truly understand how he can improve, then he wants to be punished and forgiven - with a clean slate and a reconnection to their loving affection to reassure him that he is loved by a woman who will work through frustrations rather than let them pile one upon another, or simmer or fester into disasters that will threaten the relationship that he treasures.
I know that is a tall order. Probably more like a spanking novel. Maybe I will write it someday. | 
