Over the years I have often wondered why I have an interest in spanking, and I really have no clear answer. I certainly experienced some corporal punishment at school and at home as a child, but so too did many thousands of people of my age who don't appear to have any interest in the subject. I don't have sadistic or machovist feelings, and I detest violence in any form. Yet there is this very strong fascination which I have experienced since I was of primary school age.
However, there are some key components in the stories and videos that I have read and seen which are particularly important to me. The person who is handing out the discipline must have an air of quiet authority and confidence, and the discipline must be fair, reasonable and proportionate. No pomposity, and very ordinary. The person being disciplined must be reluctantly compliant, not wanting to be spanked, but accepting that it is necessary and deserved. Shyness and some embarrassment is also important, but not humiliation. The scenarios and the discipline must be rooted firmly in 'reality', and must be believable.
I suppose that we all have some sort of internal template in our minds of that one 'perfect' disciplinary experience which, if we read about it or saw it on video, or even experienced it, would press all the right buttons' and that template is no doubt different for each of us. We will probably never find the one that is inside us, and many of us don't have the skills to write it down, but we can at least enjoy all those stories that come close to it. |