Domestic abuse is usually done by men and women, yes gals, women are guillty of DA also, who feel inadequte and small. I can't see someone who bullies reading spank stories where he or she finds out that there is trust, love, respect, and wonder on both sides of the cane, paddle, hairbrush, etc.
An abuser uses his or her fists, feet and more dangerous weapons than a kitchen wooden spoon. An abuser separates his or her victim from family, friends and the world at large. They like to keep their victims close to hand and hidden away. An abuser looks for reasons to abuse. He or she finds one tiny thing and blows it up into a big thing and then the fists, feet, spit and belittling begins. An abuser always says "sorry".
Loving discipline is done calmly and with care to the person being punished. There is always a hug or some type of comfort given after the punishment to show that things are back to normal and all is forgiven. The punishment is never more than needed.
I would not worry about people who are out for blood and humiliation reading these stories and feeling vindicated. If anything it would make them feel small and worthless, which in my opinion for whatever it's worth they are. |