Good question, Janush.
I'm half South Asian, half 'Murican -- from Texas, no less. I was a little girl in the 1980s.
At the time I didn't see any cultural distinction between my Gujarat and my Scots-Irish families. Spanking was threatened ten times more than it actually happened, and when it did, in both cultures it tended to be casual, almost symbolic. For both sides it was open-handed on clothing. It was VERY brief and more embarrassing than painful, like a more intense version of an angry scolding.
Stories from my elders painted more of a difference. For my Indian family, canes featured prominently, and a chilly formality reigned, as if emulating their one-time British overlords.
By contrast, for my Anglo aunts, uncles and grandparents, the paddle was a cure-all, both at home and in school. Their descriptions highlighted their disciplinarians' passion, like an expression of intense affection that was demonstrated by setting your cherished angel's bottom aflame.
Side note to
Seegee: Three cheers for you and all your work in Bared Affair. I remember reading your stories there 20 years ago and thinking, "Damn, I wish I could get that job."
