Commenting has been a hot topic here for as long as I can remember, and I have certainly contributed my share of opinions on the topic. One that I believe I mentioned once or twice before but seems relevant again now is how I feel about not seeing any new comments on pieces that I have suggested in response to specific request threads on the forum. While the usual reader may or may not leave a comment, I think it's particularly rude to make a request on the forum for a story type, get well-meaning authors to take the time to respond with suggestions, and then not bother to acknowledge those suggestions. I even think that if a suggested piece falls short of the OP's expectations, it is still appropriate to acknowledge the suggestion with at least a "thanks for the suggestion. I read the story, but I didn't really connect with it." To do otherwise is like making a specific request for a particular drink from a host at a party, getting it, and then walking away without so much as a 'thank you'....as if the host was some lowly personal servant. We clearly live in a very entitled society. |